37 | When Routines Shrink Your Life: How to Break Free
In this episode of Mental Makeover Radio, let’s delve into the intricate world of routines. As the fall season prompts many of us to reassess our daily habits, I explore the dual nature of routines—how they can both support and limit our lives. We need routines in our lives from a young age and yet, as adults, those same routines can start to shrink our lives.
Routines can help us preserve mental energy by automating repetitive tasks, reducing decision fatigue, and providing a sense of control.
Healthy vs. Unhealthy Routines:
While routines can promote mental health and wellness, they can also reinforce negative habits and mindsets. In therapy, we often work on creating routines that support positive mental health and dismantling those that contribute to anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem.
The Downside of Rigid Routines:
Routines can become too rigid, limiting our ability to see new opportunities and experience new things. They can be rooted in outdated mindsets, especially if they were formed during challenging times in our lives.
We need to focus on the flexibility of our routines, how we can expand our comfort zones, audit our need for control (even though control is an illusion we hold on to), and be open to adapting to new routines that fit our current life and goals.
Time Stamps
00:00:01 - Introduction to Routines
00:00:33 - The Balance of Routines
00:01:06 - The Ubiquity of Routines
00:02:32 - Healthy vs. Unhealthy Routines
00:02:54 - The Brain and Routine Automation
00:03:58 - Decision Fatigue and Energy Preservation
00:05:02 - Creating Healthy Habits
00:05:55 - Integrating Positive Routines
00:06:18 - When Routines Work Against You
00:06:39 - The Problem with Rigidity
00:08:04 - Flexibility in Routines
00:08:28 - Outdated Mindsets and Routines
00:09:41 - Routines from Difficult Times
00:10:14 - The Impact of Rigid Routines
00:11:06 - Allowing Space for New Experiences
00:12:10 - Creativity and Spontaneity
00:13:04 - Control and Routine
00:14:27 - The Illusion of Control
00:15:08 - The Importance of Free Time
00:16:01 - The Consequences of a Small Comfort Zone
00:17:06 - Signs of Unwellness
00:18:08 - Expanding Your Comfort Zone
00:19:00 - Embracing Discomfort
00:19:44 - Rediscovering Wonderment
00:20:09 - Auditing Your Routines
00:21:01 - The Road to Happiness
00:21:34 - Embracing a Bigger Life
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